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What to do if…
a threatening message reveals your location, address, workplace, or a recent photo of you

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Short answer

Move to the safest available place, tell someone nearby, and avoid replying to the sender. Call 999 if the message threatens violence, the sender may be nearby, someone is following or approaching you, or anyone is in immediate danger.

Do not do these things

  • Do not reply, challenge the sender, agree to meet, or disclose where you are going.
  • Do not go outside or retrace your route to look for the sender or photographer.
  • Do not continue to your usual destination if you think someone may be following you.
  • Do not post your current location, journey, plans, or live updates online.
  • Do not click links, open unexpected files, or install anything sent with the message.
  • Do not delete the original message or account before saving the available details, if it is safe to do so.
  • Do not delay contacting the police while trying to collect more evidence.
  • Do not assume the message is harmless because the sender could be bluffing.

What to do now

  1. Reach a safer pause. If you are away from home, go inside a busy, staffed place and tell a staff member you feel threatened. If you are at home or work, secure available entrances and stay away from exposed doors and windows. Call 999 if danger may be immediate.

  2. Tell one trusted person what has happened. Ask them to stay with you, alert staff or security, or remain on the phone while you contact the police.

  3. If there is no immediate danger, call 101 or use the reporting route for your local police force. State exactly what the message revealed, whether the location or address is current, whether the photo appears recent, and whether the sender has threatened to approach or harm anyone.

  4. If it is safe, save screenshots showing the complete message, sender name, username, user ID, platform, date, time, links, and photo. Keep the original message. You do not need to gather evidence before reporting.

  5. On a device you believe is safe, check whether live-location sharing is active in messaging, maps, social media, fitness, family, workplace, or smart-device accounts. Stop sharing with anyone you do not trust only when doing so is safe; ask the police or National Stalking Helpline for guidance if changing settings could alert the sender.

  6. If the message names your workplace, tell reception, security, or a manager not to confirm whether you are present, disclose your schedule, or direct unexpected visitors to you. Give them the sender’s identifying details or image if available.

  7. If the message names your home address, tell other people in the household not to admit unexpected visitors or disclose information about you. Call 999 if someone appears outside, attempts to enter, follows you home, or threatens violence.

  8. If the photo appears to have been taken recently, note where and roughly when it may have been taken. Do not return to investigate; pass those details to the police.

  9. Keep contact with the sender to a minimum. After preserving the available details, use the platform’s reporting tools if it is safe to do so.

What can wait

You do not need to determine how the sender obtained the information, confront anyone, make a public statement, decide whether to move home or leave work, or choose a long-term legal route now. A full review of every account, device, password, camera, and privacy setting can wait until you are physically safe and supported.

Important reassurance

A location, address, workplace name, or recent photo does not by itself prove that the sender is physically nearby. The information may have come from an online account, another person, an earlier post, or a shared service. It is still reasonable to treat the message seriously, seek safety, and report it. This is not your fault, and you do not have to investigate it alone.

Scope note

This guide covers the first steps for reaching safety, preserving basic information, reducing immediate location exposure, and contacting support. Later decisions about security changes, workplace arrangements, stalking support, or legal protection may require specialist help.

Important note

This is general personal-safety information for the UK, not legal, cyber-security, security, or other professional advice. Call 999 when someone is in immediate danger, violence is being threatened, or a crime is in progress.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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