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What to do if…
you are contacted about a deceased person’s debts or bills and fear you may be responsible

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy UK guide

Short answer

Do not pay from your own money or accept responsibility until you have checked whose name is on the agreement and why the organisation believes you owe it. Debts held only by the person who died are generally paid from their estate and do not automatically pass to relatives.

Do not do these things

  • Do not give bank details or make a payment simply because someone has contacted you.
  • Do not say or write that the debt is yours before checking the agreement.
  • Do not sign a repayment agreement in your own name without independent advice.
  • Do not distribute money or property from the estate while its debts remain unclear.
  • Do not ignore court papers, formal demands or letters containing a response date.
  • Do not assume that being a spouse, partner, child, beneficiary or next of kin makes you personally responsible.
  • Do not use contact details in an unexpected message until you have checked that the sender is genuine.

What to do now

  1. Pause the conversation. Ask for the organisation’s name, a reference number, the name on the account and a written explanation of why it believes you are responsible.

  2. Check that the contact is genuine. Find the organisation’s official contact details independently and use those details rather than a number or link in an unexpected message.

  3. Check whose name is on the debt or bill. You may be responsible where the agreement is in your name, is jointly held, or you guaranteed it. You may also have responsibility for some continuing household charges connected with a home you still occupy.

  4. If the debt was only in the deceased person’s name, tell the organisation that the person has died. Give the executor’s or administrator’s contact details if one has been appointed, but do not promise to pay from your own money.

  5. Keep the letter, email or message. Make a brief note of any call, including the date, the caller’s name and what was said.

  6. If you are dealing with the estate, record the claimed debt and avoid distributing estate money or property until the assets, debts and taxes have been checked.

  7. If the estate might not have enough money to pay all its debts, stop making payments or distributions and seek specialist advice. An insolvent estate must generally pay debts in a particular order.

  8. Get free debt advice if the organisation says the debt is joint, guaranteed or personally yours, or if you are unsure about a shared mortgage, rent, council tax, water, energy or another household bill.

  9. Seek legal advice promptly if you receive court papers, are threatened with enforcement against your property, or are told that your handling of the estate has made you personally responsible.

What can wait

You do not need to decide now whether to accept the debt, use your savings, sell anything, distribute an inheritance or agree to a repayment plan. First obtain the paperwork, confirm that the contact is genuine and check whether the debt belongs to you or to the estate.

Important reassurance

A person’s individual debts do not usually become a relative’s debts merely because the person has died. Personal responsibility can arise in specific circumstances, including joint agreements, guarantees, continuing household liabilities or incorrect administration of an estate, so checking before acting is appropriate.

Scope note

This guide covers only the first steps after contact about a deceased person’s debts or bills. Administering an estate, disputing liability or dealing with an estate that cannot pay all its debts may require specialist probate, debt or legal advice.

Important note

This is general information, not legal or financial advice. Liability and estate procedures can depend on the agreement, the type of bill, where in the UK the deceased lived and any action already taken by the person dealing with the estate.

Additional Resources

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About this guide

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