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What to do if…
you are pressured to resign or sign a resignation or settlement immediately

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Short answer

Do not resign or sign simply because you are being told to decide immediately. Ask for the complete proposal in writing, say that you need time and independent advice, and avoid making further commitments during the conversation.

Do not do these things

  • Do not say or write that you resign merely to end an uncomfortable meeting.
  • Do not sign a resignation, settlement, waiver or other document that you have not read and understood.
  • Do not assume that a verbal deadline cannot be questioned.
  • Do not rely on HR, your manager or the employer’s adviser to give you independent advice.
  • Do not sign merely to confirm receipt unless you have checked that the wording only acknowledges receipt and does not accept any terms.
  • Do not send angry messages, threaten anyone or post about the dispute online.
  • Do not delete messages, alter records or remove confidential information or personal data belonging to others.
  • Do not simply stop attending work unless it is unsafe to attend or you have authorised absence.

What to do now

  1. Say calmly: “I am not resigning or signing this today. Please send the complete proposal and any deadline to me in writing.”

  2. Ask your employer to confirm whether they are proposing a resignation, settlement agreement, dismissal, redundancy, disciplinary process or another formal step. Ask them to state the reason and what they say will happen if you do not agree.

  3. Ask for reasonable time to consider the written terms and obtain independent advice. For settlement agreements in England, Scotland and Wales, the Acas Code recommends allowing at least 10 calendar days unless both sides agree otherwise.

  4. Request a complete copy of every document you have been shown. Keep it without signing, or ask for it to be emailed to you.

  5. As soon as you can, write a factual note of the date, time, location, people present, documents shown and words used about resigning, signing or possible consequences. Keep lawful copies of your contract, payslips and relevant correspondence that you are entitled to hold.

  6. Contact your trade union or an independent employment adviser. Contact Acas if you work in England, Scotland or Wales, or the Labour Relations Agency if you work in Northern Ireland. A settlement agreement in Great Britain, or a compromise agreement in Northern Ireland, must meet legal conditions before it can validly waive specified employment claims, including independent advice from an appropriately qualified adviser.

  7. Confirm your position in writing: “I have not resigned and have not accepted the proposed agreement. I remain available to work. Please confirm my current working arrangements and the next formal step.”

  8. If you have already resigned or signed something, obtain a complete copy, record how it happened and seek specialist advice promptly. If you want to withdraw a resignation, tell your employer clearly and immediately, but do not assume that withdrawal must be accepted.

  9. Seek advice promptly if your employment has ended or might end. Tribunal time limits can be short, and an internal grievance, appeal or negotiation does not necessarily protect the applicable deadline.

What can wait

You do not need to decide now whether to accept a payment, negotiate an amount, raise a formal grievance, bring a claim or leave your job. Detailed decisions about notice pay, holiday pay, tax wording, references, confidentiality and restrictions on future work can wait until you have the full written terms and independent advice.

Important reassurance

Asking for time, written information and independent advice is a reasonable response to a decision that could end your employment or affect your rights. Pressure from an employer does not establish that resigning or signing is in your interests, and you do not need to resolve everything in one meeting.

Scope note

This guide covers immediate first steps to pause the situation, preserve accurate information and reach appropriate support. Later decisions about resignation, settlement terms, grievances, dismissal or legal claims may require specialist employment advice.

Important note

This is general information, not legal or financial advice. Employment rights and procedures depend on where you work within the UK, your employment status, contract, circumstances and the precise words and documents involved.

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