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What to do if…
you cannot access a deceased person’s phone, email, or online accounts and urgent information is needed

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy UK guide

Short answer

Stop password attempts and avoid changing, erasing, or closing anything. Identify the exact information needed, try to obtain it from the organisation that originally holds it, and ask the person legally authorised to deal with the estate to use the provider’s official deceased-user process.

Do not do these things

  • Do not keep guessing passcodes, passwords, security answers, or verification codes.
  • Do not reset, erase, restore, update, recycle, sell, or give away the device.
  • Do not try to unlock the device using the deceased person’s face or finger.
  • Do not impersonate the deceased person or give false information during account recovery.
  • Do not remove the SIM, change recovery details, or disconnect linked services unless a provider or qualified specialist advises it.
  • Do not request account deletion or memorialisation while information may still be needed.
  • Do not assume that owning the device or being next of kin automatically satisfies the provider’s access requirements.
  • Do not send death certificates, identity documents, or access keys through unofficial links or to unverified callers.
  • Do not let different people send conflicting access, deletion, or closure requests.

What to do now

  1. If someone’s life or immediate safety may depend on the missing information, call 999. Explain what is happening without delaying the call to keep trying the device.

  2. Write down the exact item you need, why it is urgent, and when it is needed. Separate the device from the account: note whether the information is likely to be on the phone itself, in email, in cloud storage, or in a named online service.

  3. Try the original source of the information. Contact the relevant GP practice, pharmacy, hospital, care provider, employer, school, solicitor, insurer, bank, travel company, funeral director, or other organisation. Ask whether it can confirm the specific detail or take the necessary action through its own identity and authority checks.

  4. Secure the device and related papers. Keep the phone, tablet, computer, chargers, notebooks, printed recovery information, and any legacy access key together. Avoid erasing, resetting, updating, recycling, or changing account or recovery settings while the information may still be needed.

  5. Identify the executor or other person formally authorised to deal with the estate. The title and documents required can differ according to where in the UK the deceased lived and whether there is a will. That person should coordinate account requests where possible.

  6. Check the will, estate papers, password-manager instructions, and messages previously sent to trusted people for an official digital legacy arrangement. Examples include an Apple Legacy Contact access key or a notification created through Google’s Inactive Account Manager.

  7. Go directly to the provider’s official deceased-user page. Request access to data or specific content rather than deletion while the urgent information is still needed. A provider may require a death certificate, proof of identity, evidence of authority or relationship, or legal documentation. It may offer access to certain data without supplying the password, and access is not guaranteed.

  8. Keep a short record of each request, including the account involved, the exact information requested, the date, documents supplied, reference number, and any genuine deadline.

  9. If the provider says that a court order or other legal authority is required, pause before filing or paying for anything. Ask a UK solicitor familiar with estates and digital accounts what process applies in the relevant part of the UK.

What can wait

You do not need to decide now who will keep the device, organise photographs, read personal messages, transfer subscriptions, memorialise social-media profiles, close non-urgent accounts, or dispose of equipment. Wider probate, estate, tax, and digital-archive decisions can wait unless an organisation has identified a genuine deadline.

Important reassurance

A locked device or account does not necessarily block the urgent task. The organisation that created or received the information may be able to confirm a specific fact or act on the situation without giving anyone full access to the deceased person’s private communications.

Scope note

This guide covers immediate first steps only. Later decisions about estate authority, account disclosure, device recovery, probate, and private communications may require provider-specific procedures or specialist legal or technical help.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, technical, financial, medical, or other professional advice. Access requirements depend on the provider, device, information requested, legal authority available, and the part of the UK connected with the estate.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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