What to do if…
you feel unsafe walking to your car because someone is loitering along your path
Short answer
Don’t walk past them. Go back to a staffed, well-lit place and ask for a staff/security escort if available (or arrange a different way home). If you feel in immediate danger, call 999.
Do not do these things
- Do not “push through” just to avoid seeming rude or overreacting.
- Do not confront the person, argue, or try to “test” what they want.
- Do not take a quieter shortcut (between cars, stairwells, side exits) to avoid them.
- Do not dig for keys while walking or stop to message people in the open.
- Do not unlock your car and then pause outside it.
- Do not get into your car and sit there with doors unlocked while you decide.
What to do now
- Stop and change the plan. Turn around and go back to the nearest place with people and staff (shop, reception, petrol station kiosk, venue entrance, hotel lobby).
- Put people and visibility around you. Stand near a counter/front desk or other footfall point (often near main entrances/pay stations where there may be cameras), rather than waiting alone outside.
- Ask for an escort if it’s available. Keep it simple: “I don’t feel safe walking to my car. Can someone walk with me to bay/level X?”
If they can’t, ask if you can wait inside until a friend/relative arrives, or until the area clears. - Arrange a safer alternative from inside. If you’re alone, consider calling a friend for pickup at the entrance or booking a licensed taxi/minicab from where you are, instead of walking out by yourself.
- If you think you’re being followed or blocked, call the police.
- Call 999 if you feel in immediate danger, the person is approaching you, following you, or preventing you leaving.
- Call 101 if you’re not in immediate danger but want police advice or to report concerning behaviour. Give your exact location (car park/site name, nearest entrance, level/row) and say what you’re doing now (“I’m inside by reception.”).
- If you can’t speak on a mobile call to 999: stay on the line and follow the operator prompts; you may be asked to press 55 to confirm you need police help.
- When you do reach the car, keep it simple: get in and go. Get in, lock the doors immediately, start the engine, and leave the area. If you still feel followed, drive to a busy, well-lit place (e.g., a petrol station) and call 999 if you need urgent help.
- After you’re safe, tell the site. If this happened on private property (store/venue/workplace), consider notifying management/security so they can watch for patterns and review their safety measures.
What can wait
- You don’t need to decide right now whether the person is “actually dangerous.”
- You don’t need to take photos, collect proof, or confront anyone to justify leaving.
- You don’t need to make a formal report immediately if you’re shaken—create distance and safety first.
- You don’t need to stick to your original plan or route.
Important reassurance
Feeling unsafe is enough reason to step back and change course. Many people freeze or second-guess themselves in moments like this; choosing the safer option is a normal, sensible response.
Scope note
This is first-steps-only guidance to help you avoid being isolated and get to safety. Anything beyond that—like reporting repeated issues in a specific car park—can be handled later when you’re calmer.
Important note
This is general information, not legal advice or a substitute for emergency services. If you believe you’re in immediate danger, call 999.
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