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What to do if…
you receive an unconfirmed or suspicious death notification and cannot verify it

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy UK guide

Short answer

Pause before acting on the notification. Independently contact the person concerned, someone who can safely check on them, or the named organisation using contact details you find yourself rather than any number or link in the message.

Do not do these things

  • Do not send money, bank details, passwords, security codes or identity documents.
  • Do not click links, open attachments or install anything supplied by the sender.
  • Do not treat caller identification, an email address, a profile name or personal details in the message as proof.
  • Do not announce the death publicly or tell a wide group of people until there is reliable confirmation.
  • Do not travel urgently to an unfamiliar place solely because the sender directs you there.
  • Do not repeatedly contact the person concerned if that could place them at risk; use a trusted person nearby or an appropriate official service instead.
  • Do not make funeral, financial, property or account decisions while the report remains unverified.
  • Do not delete the notification, even if you stop responding to the sender.

What to do now

  1. Move to a quiet place and record exactly what was said. Save the message, voicemail, email, telephone number, account name, time of contact and any reference number without clicking its links.
  2. Try the person concerned using contact details you already had before receiving the notification. Use another familiar contact method where appropriate.
  3. Contact a trusted relative, neighbour, colleague, carer or other person who may know whether the person is safe or can check on them safely.
  4. If a hospital, police force, care home, employer or other organisation was named, find its official switchboard or website independently. Ask how to verify whether the contact, staff member, department or reference number is genuine. The organisation may be unable to disclose personal information immediately.
  5. Call 999 if you have reason to believe someone is in immediate danger or needs an urgent emergency response. For a non-emergency police concern, contact the relevant police force through 101 or its official website.
  6. Tell one calm, trusted person what has happened and ask them to stay with you or help with verification calls.
  7. Stop responding if the sender demands money, secrecy, personal information or immediate action. Contact your bank through an independently verified number immediately if you disclosed financial details or transferred money.
  8. Report suspected fraud to Report Fraud if you are in England, Wales or Northern Ireland. In Scotland, report suspected fraud to Police Scotland through 101 or its official website.

What can wait

Public announcements, funeral arrangements, travel bookings, account closures, benefit notifications, property decisions and detailed questions about what happened can wait until the death has been reliably confirmed. You do not need to resolve every inconsistency or decide whom to believe immediately.

Important reassurance

Taking time to verify an unexpected death notification is reasonable. A genuine organisation should understand that you need to confirm its identity through an independently obtained contact route, although privacy rules may limit what staff can disclose.

Scope note

This guide covers immediate stabilising and verification steps only. Once the information is confirmed, later decisions about registration, travel, funeral arrangements, estates or support may require help from the relevant authority or a qualified specialist.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, financial, medical or other professional advice. Contact emergency services if anyone may be in immediate danger, and use independently verified official contact details for advice about a specific case.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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