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What to do if…
someone follows you to an elevator and you feel unsafe getting in with them

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy USA guide

Short answer

Do not ride the elevator with them. Step away from the doorway and move to a staffed or busy area; go outside only if that is safer.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t enter the elevator just to avoid seeming rude.
  • Don’t argue, threaten, or physically block the doorway with your body.
  • Don’t go to your home floor or an isolated floor while the person is still following you.
  • Don’t stay in the elevator threshold if you can step away from it.
  • Don’t stop to work out the person’s intentions before moving toward other people.

What to do now

  1. Create a safer pause. Stay out of the elevator car. Step away from the doorway as soon as you can and let the doors close.
  2. Move toward other people. Go to a front desk, security desk, leasing office, busy lobby, open business, or another staffed area if one is available. Go outside only if that is safer.
  3. Wait near other people before using another car. If it feels safer, wait in a staffed or busy area for the next elevator, use a different elevator bank, or use another route that keeps you near other people. Check an elevator mirror before entering if there is one.
  4. Use your phone only when it is safe to do so. Call or message a trusted person, or ask nearby staff or another person for help. Share your location quietly or by message if saying it aloud could reveal where you are going.
  5. Call 911 if you believe you need immediate police assistance. Give your location and briefly describe what the person is doing. Call if you can. If calling is not safe or possible and text-to-911 is available in your area, text 911 with your location and a brief description.
  6. If you are already in the elevator with the person, avoid going to your home or an isolated floor. Use the controls to return to the lobby or leave where other people are visible if you can do so safely. Use the elevator emergency call button or intercom to request help, where available.

What can wait

  • You do not have to decide now whether to make a non-emergency police report.
  • You do not need to confront the person or explain why you stepped away.
  • Once you are safe, you can write down the time, location, and a brief description if that would help.
  • Once you are safe, you can tell building management or security. They may be able to check available records or discuss building access concerns.

Important reassurance

You are allowed to step away without explaining yourself. Feeling awkward for a moment is less important than avoiding an elevator ride that does not feel safe.

Scope note

These are first steps for creating distance, reaching other people, and getting immediate help if needed. Later decisions may need support from building staff, local law enforcement, or another appropriate specialist.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, medical, financial, therapeutic, or other professional advice. If you believe you need immediate police, fire, or ambulance assistance, call 911.

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