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What to do if…
someone repeatedly approaches or appears to be luring a child or vulnerable person

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Short answer

Move with the child or vulnerable person to a safer, staffed place and stay with them. Call 911 if someone is trying to take, follow, corner, threaten, coerce, or separate them, or if immediate police assistance is otherwise needed.

Do not do these things

  • Do not confront, threaten, chase, or follow the person.
  • Do not leave the child or vulnerable person alone while trying to investigate.
  • Do not encourage them to approach the person, vehicle, or location again.
  • Do not post accusations, names, photographs, or identifying details online.
  • Do not promise secrecy if they disclose something that suggests they may be unsafe.
  • Do not repeatedly question them or suggest what you think happened.

What to do now

  1. Bring the child or vulnerable person beside you and move to a staffed, well-lit place such as a store, school office, reception desk, security station, or trusted home.
  2. If the person is still nearby, following, blocking movement, making threats, offering transport, or trying to separate the person from you, call 911. Give the call-taker your location, the nature of the emergency, and a description of the person or vehicle, then follow the instructions given.
  3. Keep your distance. Do not approach the person or vehicle to obtain more information.
  4. Tell the child or vulnerable person that they do not have to answer questions, accept gifts or rides, help with a task, keep a secret, or go anywhere with that person.
  5. Ask only what you need to know for immediate safety. Use calm, non-leading questions and do not pressure them to continue talking.
  6. If this is happening near a school, care facility, store, transit location, workplace, or residential building, alert responsible staff or security so they can help keep the person safe.
  7. If there is no immediate danger but the approaches are repeated or concerning, contact the local police or sheriff’s non-emergency route and describe what you directly observed without guessing at the person’s motive.
  8. If the concern may involve abuse, neglect, or exploitation, contact the appropriate state agency. For a child, this may be a child protective agency. For an older adult or an adult with a disability, check your state’s Adult Protective Services eligibility and reporting route because definitions and coverage vary by state.
  9. When safely away, write down what you directly observed, including the time, location, words used, direction of travel, and any vehicle description. Do not return to the area to investigate.
  10. If a child is missing, immediately call local law enforcement. After making that report, contact the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children.

What can wait

You do not need to decide the person’s motive, identify a crime, confront anyone, search the area, contact the media, or make a public accusation now. Decisions about longer-term routines, transport, supervision, or care arrangements can wait until the immediate situation is stable.

Important reassurance

You do not need proof of someone’s intentions before taking calm safety precautions or reporting specific behavior you observed. Trained responders can assess what should happen next.

Scope note

This guide covers immediate first steps only. Later decisions may require help from law enforcement, child protection professionals, Adult Protective Services, school or facility child-protection or safety staff, or a specialist support organization.

Important note

This is general safety information, not legal, investigative, medical, or other professional advice. Follow instructions from emergency call-takers and local authorities when someone may be in immediate danger.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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