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What to do if…
you have just been sexually assaulted and are now somewhere safe

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy USA guide

Short answer

Remain in the safest place available and contact someone you trust or a sexual assault support service. Seek prompt medical care for injuries and time-sensitive treatment without waiting to decide whether to report the assault.

Do not do these things

  • Do not contact or meet the person who assaulted you while you are stabilizing the situation.
  • Do not force yourself to decide immediately whether to report to law enforcement.
  • Do not drive yourself if you feel faint, confused, severely tired, intoxicated, injured, or concerned that you were drugged.
  • Do not dismiss heavy bleeding, trouble breathing, loss of consciousness, severe pain, possible strangulation, or a head injury because you cannot see an injury.
  • Do not blame yourself for freezing, complying, drinking, trusting someone, changing your mind, or not remembering everything.
  • Do not pressure yourself to give anyone a complete account right now.

What to do now

  1. Stay where the person who assaulted you cannot reach you. Lock the door if appropriate, avoid sharing your location with them, and call 911 if danger returns or you need emergency medical help.
  2. Contact one trusted person and ask them to come to you, remain on the phone, arrange safe transportation, or accompany you for medical care.
  3. Contact RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline for confidential support and help locating a nearby sexual assault service provider, hospital, or clinic.
  4. Seek medical care as soon as you can. Tell the hospital or clinic that you were sexually assaulted and ask whether a sexual assault nurse examiner or another specially trained examiner is available.
  5. Tell the clinician about any pain, bleeding, breathing difficulty, loss of consciousness, possible strangulation, head injury, memory gaps, possible drugging, pregnancy concerns, STI concerns, medications, and allergies.
  6. Ask about care for injuries, STI testing or preventive treatment, emergency contraception where relevant, and HIV post-exposure prophylaxis. HIV PEP must be started within 72 hours when it is medically appropriate, and starting sooner is better.
  7. If you may want a forensic examination and it will not delay care, try to avoid washing or changing clothes, but seek care even if you have already done either.
  8. You do not have to decide whether to report the assault before receiving medical care. Ask the advocate or examiner what options are available if you are considering a forensic examination but are undecided about reporting.
  9. During an examination, ask staff to explain each part before it happens. You can request a pause, decline a part of the examination, or withdraw consent at any point.
  10. Ask the hotline, advocate, or clinician to explain confidentiality limits and any reporting duties that may apply in your state, especially if you are under 18 or may be covered by a vulnerable-adult reporting law.

What can wait

You do not need to decide now whether to report, take legal action, confront anyone, tell family or work, end a relationship, post online, or make long-term plans. You also do not need to produce a complete timeline or remember every detail before receiving care and support.

Important reassurance

What happened was not your fault. Freezing, shaking, feeling numb, becoming confused, feeling unusually calm, or remembering events in pieces can occur after trauma and do not mean that you consented or caused the assault.

Scope note

This guide covers immediate safety, medical care, and specialist support after a recent sexual assault. Later decisions about reporting, legal options, follow-up healthcare, work or school arrangements, and ongoing support may require help from qualified local professionals or specialist services.

Important note

This is general information, not medical, legal, therapeutic, or other professional advice. Call 911 for immediate danger or a medical emergency, and seek advice from a qualified healthcare professional or sexual assault service about your circumstances.

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