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What to do if…
a customer or client is threatening you online because of your job

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy UK guide

Short answer

Stop engaging, save what you can, and tell your employer as a workplace safety issue. If anyone is in immediate danger, call 999; if it is not an emergency, report threats, harassment, online abuse, or blackmail through 101 or your local police online reporting route.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t argue, explain, or negotiate in DMs, comments, emails, or review replies.
  • Don’t delete messages or posts before you have captured them, unless leaving them visible creates an immediate safety risk.
  • Don’t share personal details to prove your side, such as your address, routine, family details, private phone number, or personal email.
  • Don’t meet the person in real life to clear it up.
  • Don’t keep handling the same person alone once threats start; route contact through work.
  • Don’t investigate the person yourself or ask friends to pile on publicly.
  • Don’t delay calling 999 because you have not collected screenshots.

What to do now

  1. Decide whether this is an emergency.
    If the person is outside, says they are coming now, threatens immediate violence, or you think anyone may be harmed, call 999. If it is not an emergency, report it through 101 or your local police online reporting route.

  2. Move yourself out of direct contact.
    Stop replying from your personal account or work account. If you are at work, tell a manager or colleague before you leave, move away from public-facing areas if needed, and ask that any further contact goes through a team inbox, manager, reception, or security.

  3. Capture the evidence before blocking where safe.
    Take screenshots or screen recordings showing the account name, username, exact wording, dates, times, platform, and URLs. Save emails, voicemails, review links, call logs, and message headers if you can. Write a short timeline of what happened, when it happened, and how it links to your job.

  4. Tell your employer in a safety-and-record way.
    Send the evidence and timeline to your line manager, HR, and security or reception if relevant. Ask for it to be logged as a workplace violence, aggression, or safety incident, and ask who is responsible for the next action.

  5. Ask for immediate controls.
    Ask work to pause your direct contact with the customer or client, reassign them if possible, move all contact to a monitored channel, remove your personal details from public-facing pages where possible, brief reception or security, and review duties such as visits, lone working, front-desk work, or closing shifts.

  6. Ask for a risk review.
    Ask your employer to review the violence and aggression risk for your role under the health and safety rules that apply to your workplace. Keep the request practical: what contact routes should change, who monitors messages, who decides whether service continues, and what happens if the person turns up.

  7. Report it on the platform after preserving what you can.
    Use the platform’s report tools for threats, harassment, impersonation, doxxing, blackmail, or abusive reviews. After saving evidence, mute or block as needed. Tighten privacy settings for who can message you, tag you, view your profile, or see your friends and family.

  8. If personal details were shared or threatened, treat it as a safety issue.
    Tell your employer and the police report route. Brief your household, building reception, or trusted neighbour only enough to handle unexpected visitors safely. Ask work to remove or protect your contact details in directories, booking systems, email signatures, websites, and public documents where possible.

  9. If they demand money, a refund, or action in exchange for stopping, do not bargain privately.
    Save the demand and let your organisation handle refunds, complaints, or service decisions through formal routes. If it is fraud or cybercrime, use the appropriate police reporting route: Report Fraud for England, Wales and Northern Ireland; in Scotland, use 101 unless it is an emergency.

What can wait

  • A perfect public reply or statement.
  • Deciding whether to make a grievance, tribunal claim, legal claim, or formal complaint.
  • Working out whether the customer or client “really means it”.
  • Investigating their identity beyond what is needed for the police, platform, and employer report.
  • Big decisions about resigning, changing role, or changing career while the immediate risk is still live.

Important reassurance

It is normal to freeze, feel embarrassed, or want to fix it quickly. A customer or client threatening you online because of your job is not just a difficult interaction; it is a workplace safety issue, and it is reasonable to ask for help and protective changes.

Scope note

These are first steps to reduce immediate risk, preserve useful information, and get the situation into safer channels. Later decisions may need support from your employer, police, a union or worker representative, HR, or specialist legal advice.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, medical, financial, therapeutic, or other professional advice. If you think anyone is in immediate danger, call 999.

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