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What to do if…
someone approaches your car at a fuel pump and tries to distract you

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Short answer

Create distance and reduce access: lock the car, put your wallet and phone away, stop engaging, and move to a safer place such as inside the shop or back into the locked car. If you feel threatened or a theft is happening, call 999; if you are safe and it is not urgent, call 101 or use your local police online reporting route if available.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t pull your wallet or phone out to show, prove, check, scan, or tap anything because a stranger asks.
  • Don’t put your phone, wallet, keys, or card on the car roof, pump, seat, or open door.
  • Don’t keep chatting while your car is unlocked or valuables are within reach.
  • Don’t let the person steer you away from your driver’s door, keys, fuel nozzle, or view of the car.
  • Don’t argue, chase, or try to physically block them if they move quickly.
  • Don’t move the car while the fuel nozzle, hose, or anything else is still connected to it.

What to do now

  1. Switch to closed mode. Stop the conversation. Say, “I can’t help,” or “Please step back,” then stop explaining.
  2. Secure the easy targets. Put your wallet and phone in a zipped pocket, closed bag, or inside your clothing, not on a seat or pump. Keep your keys on your person.
  3. Lock the car and close gaps. Lock the doors, close open windows, and close any passenger door if you can do it without moving closer to the person.
  4. Keep the pump and car in sight. Take a step back so you can see the person, both sides of the vehicle, and the fuel nozzle. Keep your hands free.
  5. Move to a safer anchor point.
    • If the shop or kiosk is open, walk inside and stand by the counter. Tell staff: “Someone is trying to distract me at pump X. Can you keep an eye out and help if needed?”
    • If going inside is not safer, get into the driver’s seat, lock the doors, keep the windows up, and do not reopen the door to continue the conversation.
  6. End the stop if you safely can. If you have finished, leave. If you are mid-fill and can safely stop, return the nozzle to the pump cradle first, secure your fuel cap, then get in, lock the doors, and leave.
  7. Call based on the immediate risk.
    • Call 999 if you feel in immediate danger, you are being blocked from leaving, threats are being made, violence seems likely, or a theft is happening now.
    • Call 101, or use your local police online reporting route if available, once you are safe if it was suspicious behaviour or an attempted theft and there is no immediate danger.
  8. If something may be missing or exposed, lock it down from a safe place. Contact your bank or card issuer using a trusted number or app to freeze cards and check recent transactions. If your phone has gone, use another device or ask someone trusted to help you lock it and secure banking or email access.

What can wait

  • Deciding whether the incident was “serious enough” to report.
  • Writing a perfect account of what happened.
  • Replacing every card immediately; freezing cards can come first.
  • Asking about CCTV or longer follow-up calls.
  • Working out exactly what the person intended.

When you are calmer, it may help to note the time, location, pump number, vehicle details if you saw them, and a brief description.

Important reassurance

Distraction at a fuel pump can feel confusing because you are already handling a car, fuel, payment, keys, and people moving around you. A safe response can be simple: reduce access, create distance, and get to staff or behind locked doors.

Scope note

These are first steps for the moment at the pump. Later decisions may need specialist help, especially if anything was stolen, money was taken, your phone was compromised, or you were threatened.

Important note

This is general safety information, not personal legal, financial, medical, therapeutic, or professional advice. If you believe you are in immediate danger, call 999.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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