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What to do if…
someone approaches your car at a fuel pump and tries to distract you

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Short answer

End the interaction, put your wallet and phone away, lock the car, and move toward staff or another occupied area when safe. Do not get back into the car or drive away while the fuel nozzle is attached. Call 911 if you are in immediate danger or a theft is happening now.

Do not do these things

  • Do not pull out your wallet, phone, cash, or cards while the person is close to you.
  • Do not place your phone or wallet on the car, the pump, or a seat.
  • Do not leave the doors unlocked or the keys in the vehicle while you are focused on the pump.
  • Do not argue, follow the person, or try to physically stop them.
  • Do not return to the pump solely to handle the nozzle if doing so would move you closer to danger.
  • Do not get back into the car or move the car while the fuel nozzle is attached.

What to do now

  1. End the interaction. Say “No” once, or say nothing. Put your wallet and phone away in a closed pocket or bag. Keep your keys with you.
  2. Lock the car. Lock all doors if you can do so safely. Keep valuables out of sight.
  3. Move toward a safer pause. Keep your distance and move toward the store counter, station staff, or another occupied area when safe. Tell staff: “Someone is trying to distract me at pump X. Please help me call for assistance.”
  4. Call 911 for immediate danger. Call 911 if you are being threatened, blocked from leaving, followed, or if a theft is happening now. Move away from the pump rather than returning to it if approaching the nozzle would move you closer to danger.
  5. Handle the nozzle only when safe. If the nozzle is attached and you can safely reach it, stop fueling and return it to the pump cradle before getting into the car or driving away. If you cannot safely do that, stay away and ask station staff or emergency responders for help.
  6. Report suspicious behavior if needed. Once you are safe, you can look up the local police non-emergency number or ask station staff if you want to report suspicious behavior that is no longer an immediate emergency.
  7. Report missing cards promptly. Once you are safe, use your bank or credit union app or call the card issuer to report a missing card or unauthorized activity. Check recent transactions.
  8. Secure a missing phone. Once you are safe, use the phone’s locate, lock, or erase feature from another device. Contact your wireless carrier and secure important accounts, especially email and banking.
  9. Use identity-theft help if needed. If personal information was misused or used to open accounts, use IdentityTheft.gov for a recovery plan.

What can wait

  • Deciding whether the person definitely intended to steal something.
  • Writing a detailed timeline. When you are calmer, note the location, pump number, time, and a basic description.
  • Replacing every card before you are physically safe.
  • Deciding whether you need a credit freeze or fraud alert. Once you are safe, check IdentityTheft.gov if you think personal information may have been misused.

Important reassurance

You do not need to prove what the person intended before ending the interaction. The priority is to reduce access to your wallet, phone, and car, then reach a safer pause.

Scope note

These are first steps for the moment at the fuel pump. Later decisions may need help from local law enforcement, your bank or card issuer, your wireless carrier, or another appropriate specialist.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, financial, medical, therapeutic, or other professional advice. If you believe you are in immediate danger, call 911.

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